We Made This Life
If you follow me on social media you will have noticed over the last couple of weeks that I have been changing my user names. It has all been part of a larger ‘re-brand’ as I have decided to rename my blog.
I set up this blog a couple of years ago now to document my family life with the little ones. I chose the name Cookies and Cwtches because I wanted something unique and I wanted something to reflect that we loved food, family and live in Wales. However, as my blog has become more popular and I have been branching out and attending blogging events, meeting new bloggers and forming relationships with brands I have found that it has been a bit of a struggle with the welsh part of the name. No one knows how to pronounce it!
So as much as I loved the old name I thought it was time to try something new. If I want this blog to grow, it needs to have an easily pronounceable name! I wanted the title of this blog to have longevity and yet at the same time reflect what we are about now. Right now the children are little and we are hopefully raising them to be happy little people and we are also working on our biggest challenge yet – renovating our new forever home.
It has taken me about a year to decide on a new blog name. I think it is right to give you a little background into our lives to explain my choice.
My husband and I come from poor families. We both didn’t have much when we were growing up, my husband wore hand me down clothes and I lived on a council estate in London. We both come from broken families where our father figures were definitely not something to look up to. I was the first person in my entire family to go to University. I worked part time whilst doing my degree to pay my fees and living expenses. My husband took out loans to fund his University education and lived at home to save money. We came out of University with a £60k joint debt.
We have suffered from the effects of the recession, the housing market crash, from the fact that we had no one to help us with a house deposit, or even childcare so working would be easier. We got pregnant unexpectedly and very quickly had to face up to the reality of being parents and we were determined that our children wouldn’t face the same struggles we have had. We are determined that through hard work we are going to build our children a better life than we had.
We have slowly paid off our debts. My husband has climbed the ranks at work and is now a well paid solicitor. I made the choice to give my children a full time mother by staying at home and earning extra money through working from home, even though that often means working into the night (as I write this it is 10.15pm). My husband is currently sanding the playroom floor as we work hard to create a beautiful home for our little family. I strongly believe in making things happen. Life will only change if you make it change. We want a great life for our children and we will do our utmost to create that for them. We are tired, overworked and have very little free time but we are making the life that we want. One day the house will be finished and we’ll be able to sit and enjoy it. One day we’ll have saved enough to send the children to university without leaving them with huge debts. One day we will pass on and this house will be their inheritance. They will be provided for in every way. And in the meantime we strive to make sure that they are happy, loved and well fed. We want them to have friends, to play, to laugh. We want to make every aspect of life beautiful. We are making this life for us and for them.
And so, We Made This Life is born. Join me as I share the life we are making for our family. Laugh with us, cry with us, and pick up some DIY tips along the way!