Potty training is a real nightmare for me. My girls are late trainers and have both been traumatised by the idea of using the potty. With Jelly Baby we are using a reward chart to encourage her to sit on the potty. She gets a sticker for sitting on it and a smartie as a treat. If by some miracle she actually does a wee or a poo she gets a lolly. Desperate times desperate measures and bribery works eh!
Here is a free downloadable copy of our reward chart that we have been using. I laminated it so I can peel the stickers off every week and start again. We found the cute heart shaped stickers in Wilkinsons and if she actually uses the potty she gets a special character sticker!