Going with a reward chart

Bean has been remarkably better behaved since we decided to try our best to cut additives out of her diet. (I have just realised that I haven’t blogged about this, but I will).

Anyway, to reinforce our new strategy with her we decided to implement a reward chart. We have done this before to varying degrees of success. She works really well with the goals and routine of a reward chart. She often does things herself without being asked and loves giving herself stickers for completing tasks. The failure with it lies fairly and squarely with me. I can never seem to find the time to go through it with her every day, or I forget, or I forget to print another chart for the next week.

This weekend we sorted out Bean’s bedroom in preparation for her birthday this week and I found a new spot for the reward chart. I stuck it to the wall in a plastic poly-pocket folder with pretty washi tape (this tape is from Ikea of all places!). I printed out several copies at once, so no forgetting to print one each week and she takes the front one out to stick star stickers when she has completed it. With this reward system she has 9 things she can do each day to earn a star. When she gets to 100 (should be in 2 weeks so achievable for a child her age) she gets to choose a treat. I am trying to steer her away from food based treats and towards other types of rewards like a trip to a soft play centre, or swimming with daddy, or a trip to the shops with mummy.

Send me your best motivational wishes that I will stick to it this time!!

reward chart design

See here for the free downloads of the reward charts I use.

3 thoughts on “Going with a reward chart

  1. With small boy I always used Lego or art supplies, that way it fitted to the different budget each week and with the rise of 99p and £1 stores made getting affordable art supplies so much easier.
    Also movie nights ate always a big hit with his favourite DVDs am home made pop corn, picnics .. Either outside or carpet ones in a den

    By the sounds of it your making good progress with diet, once you get into the routine it becomes easier, also getting her involved in the cooking increases the chance of her trying new things …. As well as saving you money

    Good luck with everything and let us know how things go

    • Thanks, art supplies is a good idea, we can get some fab stuff in our local 99p store.

      Not seeing much progress with food yet but her behaviour is much improved so will keep battling on!

      • We’re huge fans of hiding food in pasta sauces, soups, stews etc. There are some foods that contain neutriants etc that they really need but don’t always like. Have you tried foods high in vit D and omega 3 too? We’ve found this really helpful.

Leave a Comment

CommentLuv badge

%d bloggers like this: