The Ordinary Moments

Every Monday and Friday Jelly Baby goes off to nursery so I can work. In half term and holidays this carries on even though Bean is off school. It’s not ideal in some ways as I obviously get no work done when Bean is with me but I do love having a morning with my biggest girl while her sister is in nursery. Usually we plan something special like a trip to the cinema or to a museum and really enjoy some special time just the two of us.

Monday was an inset day so while Jelly Baby was at nursery my big girl and I had a morning together. It was nothing special – we went for breakfast in Asda, had a look at some clothes for her and bought some bits for my hospital bag. I wasn’t feeling very well so it was a quiet morning.

At some point during the morning it hit me that this was our last one of these mornings. Soon the baby will be here, Jelly Baby will stop nursery as I will be on maternity leave and in a year’s time when the baby is in nursery I’ll have my two big girls on days like these. Whilst I am sure that will be simply lovely, I was sad to think that this was our last alone time for a while. My big girl and I – she had me to herself for 4 years and now she is sharing me with her siblings. Special big girl time will be put on hold for a few months with a newborn but when we get back into the swing of things I’ll definitely be taking the time to spend some of these ordinary moments of one on one time with her again. They are ordinary moments but they are the ones that stick in your memory. I hope that she will always remember our special mornings as I do.20140608-092159-33719263.jpg



  1. June 8, 2014 / 11:36 am

    I really cherish the one on one time too! #OrdinaryMoments

  2. June 8, 2014 / 2:18 pm

    She will remember it forever I promise. I love one on one with my mom growing up as I had 7 siblings. it’s important for both you and her. I think. I try to have one on one with both of mine each week even if its just a half hour together. #ordinarymoments

  3. June 8, 2014 / 3:31 pm

    Awww that’s so lovely, with a twinge of sadness but exciting times coming and lots and lots of change!! This is a lovely post! X

  4. June 8, 2014 / 8:42 pm

    Lovely that you have this precious one on one time. Hopefully you’re able to continue when your next bubba arrives. Lovely post xx

  5. June 9, 2014 / 1:03 pm

    BIttersweet moment but I think that she will love her sibling as when my mother arrived with my sister its like a gift to me cuz I am no longer alone =) #ordinarymoments

  6. June 9, 2014 / 4:04 pm

    Aw what a lovely post, I bet she treasures her Mummy and her time just like you treasure it as well. I know that snatched moments with one of your children are so lovely and welcome, and so important too. Seeing this has made me think I need to take my big girl on another little date together- thank you for reminding me! x

Leave a Reply

error: Content is protected !!